Saturday, November 1, 2014

New to UU!

You are invited to our New to UU Orientation, Saturday, Nov. 8th from 9:00 am to 12:00 pm. If you're wondering what Unitarian Universalism is all about, if you'd like more information about the path to membership at DUUF, or if you are a new or longtime member who hasn't attended orientation before (or in a while), please join us for food and fellowship.
Please RSVP ASAP to

Tuesday, August 19, 2014

Financial Peace University at DUUF

 (a nine-week course beginning September 10, 2014

taught by DUUF member Nick Day)

 Most people struggle to make ends meet. They just have too much month left at the end of the money. If you have made mistakes and feel like your money vanishes each month, you are not alone. In fact, 70% of Americans live paycheck to paycheck, regardless of income. Financial Peace University is designed to teach you and your family to get out of debt, stay out of debt, and build wealth. During the 9-week course the class will meet to watch the video lesson and participate in discussion groups that will change your whole attitude about money! This class will break through the common financial jargon and explain how money really works in a simple, easy-to-understand style. During this life-changing class, you will learn how to:

Get Control Of Your Money
Follow the step-by-step process for getting out of debt and staying out of debt
Put together a monthly spending plan that really works
Set financial goals and communicate about money

Stop Struggling To Make Ends Meet
Protect your family from life’s emergencies
Eliminate the stress that comes from financial problems
Save and invest for your future

Tell Your Money What To Do
Know what insurance to buy . . . and what to avoid
Get great deals on the things you buy
Buy or sell a home the right way
Plan for your retirement and make the right investment choices

Change Your Family’s Future
Utilize a good money plan to strengthen your marriage
Unlock the power of giving to change your community
Financial Peace University at Denton Unitarian Universalist Fellowship, 1111 Cordell Street, Denton, TX. Classes will be held Wednesday nights beginning September 10 (and finishing on November 5), from 6:00 to 7:30pm. Led by DUUF member Nick Day. The cost of supplies is just $99 per individual (or couple). Free childcare is provided for families who register in advance (please register by September 1). Please contact Nick at for more info or to register. 

Splash Day

DUUF Splash Day 2013 was our BIGGEST splash experience EVER...
but that was before

be part of the fun
on Saturday, August 23rd
from 4:00pm to 8:00pm
How to participate (choose one or more):
·        Dive in! We will have an inflatable water structure (and kiddie pools) for children and the young-at-heart.
·        Bring a dish/beverage to share for the potluck.
·        Eat.
·        Bring chairs/blankets for sitting on the lawn, or borrow one from inside (or c'mon inside if you prefer air-conditioned seating).
·        Bring a friend.
·        Bring two friends.
·        Have fun!
·        Meet someone new.
·        Reconnect with old friends.
·        Eat.
·        Start a jam session.
·        Start a chicken dance.
·        Take pictures for next year’s flyer.
·        Tweet about your experience.
·        Check-in on Facebook.
·        Eat.

Friday, April 11, 2014

Interfaith observance of the National Day of Prayer May 1 2014

prays well with others

Mark your calendar for the first interfaith observance of the National Day of Prayer. For quite sometime Denton has held a Christian National Day of Prayer at noon on the square. This year the Denton Faith Alliance is gathering leaders of varied faith groups to lead an evening event. It will be on Thursday May 1 at 7:00 pm at First United Methodist Church in Denton. Show your support for religious diversity and join us for a moving service of prayer with leaders representing Judaism, Buddhism, Baha'i, Islam, Paganism, varied Christian denominations and, of course, Unitarian Universalism.

Wednesday, April 2, 2014


Nancy Fire and Kerri Burnside
Gabriel, Henry and Wyatt before the service

Cindy and Jake Jacobson before the service

Rev. Pam and Nicholas Morgan before the processional

Our wonderful choir!

Mark Davis telling it like it was and welcoming everyone to the service.

Mary Curtis lighting the chalice.

Rev. Jonalu Johnstone calls us to worship

Scottie leads us in a responsive reading by James Luther Adams.

Lexie Vriend reads from Rev. Rebecca Ann Parker's book "Blessing the World". Rev. Dennis Hamilton preaches the message.

Gerry Veeder invites us to give generously to support the UUA's Living Tradition Fund.

Amber Briggle, Matt Nakos and Matthew Morin rockin' it.

Hal Gibbons invites the congregation to sing along.

Rev. Pam and Nicholas participate in the covenant.

Judy Smith presents Rev. Pam with the most beautiful stole in the world.

Rev. Aaron White leads us in prayer and a laying on of hands.

Rev. Susan Smith offers a charge to the minister.

Rev. Don Fielding offers a charge to the congregation.

Rev. Pam offers the benediction.

Barbara Rodman presents the gift of a beautiful painting of Rev. Pam's hands (artist: Tesa Morin)

Tesa Morin and Rev. Pam with the painting.

Rev. Pam and Nicholas Morgan
Dear Ones,
I continue to hold in my memory the beautiful moment of seeing you gathered with me at the installation service. It was truly a peak experience for me. I couldn't be happier to be your minister. Someone asked me on Sunday morning, "Aren't you already our minister? What happens at the installation service that changes anything?" Again, I think of it like a wedding ceremony. A couple might sign the paperwork to be married days, weeks, even months before the actual wedding ceremony happens, but there is something in the ceremony that makes it feel real. There is something important in the ritual, in the gathering, in the public witnessing, and in the face-to-face moment when we commit to love and serve one another and our greater mission. Indeed I feel changed by it and I hope that you do too. I feel a lightness, a sense of shared purpose and a mutual love and respect. Thank you for your part in this commitment--for making this covenant with one another and with me.
So many people worked so hard to make this installation service happen that I wanted to be sure we recognize at least some of these people here. Thank You to all who contributed to this installation including:
First Christian Church for graciously sharing their building
DUUF Search Committee Members: Mark Davis (Chair), Catherine Sassen, Kelly Taylor and Mark Coomes
DUUF Board of Trustees: Nicholas Morgan (President), Devin Taylor (Vice-President), Amber Briggle (Secretary), Matthew Morin (Treasurer), Barbara Rodman (Past-President), Thomas Gonzalez, Sharon Barnhill
DUUF Committee on Ministry: Jake Jacobson, Sunnie Palmer, Ilana Morgan
Speakers: Mark Davis, Mary Curtis, Rev. Jonalu Johnstone (First Unitarian Church, Oklahoma City), Scottie McIntyre Johnson (candidate for ministry and former intern of Denton UU Fellowship), Lexie Vriend, Rev. Dennis Hamilton (Horizon UU Church, Carrollton), Gerry Veeder, Nicholas Morgan, Rev. Aaron White (First Unitarian Church, Dallas), Rev. Susan Smith (Congregational Life Staff, UUA Southern Region), Rev. Don Fielding (Minister Emeritus, Denton UU Fellowship)
Choir: Hal Gibbons (Choir Director), Lydia Alexander, Gary Cook, Carol Coulter, Jason Galbraith, Linda Hapeman, Tracy Kirk, Matthew Morin, Richard Newlin, Don Page, Theresa Page, Alana Presley, Sharon Sahm, Zac Youngblood
Instrumentalists: Amber Briggle, Matthew Morin, Matt Nakos, Catherine Sassen
Installation Coordinator: Tamela Wolman and all who helped to set up and clean up and all who helped to provide childcare.
Denton Vegan Cooperative for preparing and serving food for the reception.
Ushers: Carol Iannuzzi, Liz Yeary, Cliff Garner, Nancy Fire and Judy Smith
Staff: Linda Hapeman, Director of Religious Education and Diana Forson, Administrator
Special Guests: Rev. Craig Hunter (Trinity Presbyterian Church, Denton), Rev. Jennifer Innis (First Jefferson UU Church, Fort Worth), Rev. Patrick Price (Community UU Church, Plano), Rev. Annie Foerster, Rev. Barbara Jarrell (All Souls UU Church, Shreveport), Rev. Mark Walz (Oak Cliff UU Church), Rev. Don Lee (First United Methodist Church, Denton),  Rev. Melissa Hunter (Chaplain, Novus Hospice, Denton), Rev. Gina Purcell (Chaplain, Universal Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches), Nell Newton (Ministerial Intern at San Marcus UU Church)
And, of course, the radiant Judy Smith who crafted and gifted the most beautiful stole a minister could imagine! 
Thank you all!
Love and light,
Rev. Pam

Monday, February 17, 2014

Installation Service and Reception for Reverend Pam Wat March 30 2014

Save the Date…

Installation Service and Reception for Reverend Pam Wat
March 30, 2014 at 4:00pm
First Christian Church
1203 Fulton Street
Denton, TX
Reception Immediately to Follow at
Denton Unitarian Universalist Fellowship

Wednesday, December 18, 2013

Hanging of the Greens Photographs!




Winter Reading for Adult Religious Education


Although adult faith development classes are on break until January, please make note (and update your Christmas list accordingly) that we have some great book discussions planned for 2014! Get your books early just in case the winter weather keeps you stuck indoors with some extra reading time! Three books for 2014 are:

"The Four Agreements" by Don Miguel Ruiz - Rooted in traditional Toltec wisdom beliefs, this book has inspired many people of varied faiths and backgrounds. Don Miguel Ruiz gives four principles to practice in order to create love and happiness in your life. Adopting and committing to these agreements is simple. Actually living and keeping these Four Agreements can be one of the hardest things you will ever do. It can also be one of the most life changing things you will ever do.
Front Cover"Behind the Kitchen Door" by Saru Jayaraman -"Sustainability is about contributing to a society that everybody benefits from, not just going organic because you don't want to die from cancer or have a difficult pregnancy. What is a sustainable restaurant? It's one in which as the restaurant grows, the people grow with it."—from Behind the Kitchen Door
Blending personal narrative and investigative journalism, Jayaraman shows us that the quality of the food that arrives at our restaurant tables depends not only on the sourcing of the ingredients. Our meals benefit from the attention and skill of the people who chop, grill, sauté, and serve. Behind the Kitchen Door is a groundbreaking exploration of the political, economic, and moral implications of dining out.

"Ethics for the New Millenium" by the Dalai Lama - In a difficult, uncertain time, it takes a person of great courage, such as the Dalai Lama, to give us hope. Regardless of the violence and cynicism we see on television and read about in the news, there is an argument to be made for basic human goodness. According to the Dalai Lama, our survival has depended and will continue to depend on our basic goodness. Ethics for the New Millennium presents a moral system based on universal rather than religious principles. Its ultimate goal is happiness for every individual, irrespective of religious beliefs. Though he himself a practicing Buddhist, the Dalai Lama's teachings and the moral compass that guides him can lead each and every one of us—Muslim, Christian, Jew, Buddhist, or atheist—to a happier, more fulfilling life.

Tuesday, December 17, 2013

Varied Ways to Celebrate the Season

The winter holidays are upon us and we have special opportunities to gather, to celebrate and to reflect. All are welcome to attend one, two or all three of these events which will take place at Denton Unitarian Universalist Fellowship.

Winter sunrise-1Yule/Winter Solstice Celebration
led by Denton Covenant of Unitarian Universalist Pagans
Saturday, December 21
Gathering begins at 7:00 PM and the ritual begins promptly at 7:30

On this longest night, we turn our minds to the waning of the dark and the growing strength of the light. As we celebrate this season of tradition with new beginnings, new hopes and new dreams, take a moment out of the cold and dreary winter to embrace the possibilities of the year to come. Children 10 and older who can participate respectfully are welcome to attend with a parent/guardian. Childcare can be arranged if requested no later than December 17.  Please bring a dish to share for the potluck after the ceremony.  Donations of a dollar or three to defray costs are welcome but not required.  For questions or information, please contact John Beckett at or 972-948-9211.  Come experience the mystery of the Winter Solstice! 

“The Gifts of Christmas” Christmas Eve Service for All Ages
Tuesday, December 24th at 4:30pm
In this multigenerational service for all ages, we welcome children, youth, family members and young-at-heart to experience the stories and songs of Christmas. All will receive a special gift as we celebrate the gifts of Christmas.

   "Amazing Peace" Christmas Eve Candlelight Service
December 24th at 6:00pm

Each year we light candles on Christmas Eve to invite faith, hope, joy and love. This year we invite a fifth guest—peace. In doing so, we hope for more than just the absence of war, but true peace. What would true peace look like and how might we find it?

Friday, October 25, 2013

Cardo’s Farm Project November 9, 2013

Cardo’s Farm Project

When: Saturday, November 9, 2013

Time: 9:30 AM til approximately noon

Meet at DUUF that morning and carpool over.

Come get your hands dirty with the Social Action Committee. Help make a difference locally and learn more about local farming.

The sign up sheet is located at the Information table in the coffee and conversation area.


Contact Jessica Nakos for more information.